FS-3758 --resolve ok so I wrote my own patch but i did borrow the 2 lines of code to create a seq from the original patch! sofia changes probably need to be converted to a tag if they are to go upstream.  This completely manages sub/pub from inside mod_sofia inside the db and subs can now persist and/or fail over mid dialog tested on several things like polycom/snom/yealink on SLA and presence