FS-6128 FS-6200 --resolve allocating the sofia_private on the nua_handle seems to lead to memory corruption, changing it back to malloc as done in the version before the regression

This is needed to support squeeze for awhile longer.

Make private inlines in C files 'static inline', not just 'inline', or the compiler
can discard the definition if it chooses not to inline it.

Make functions declared in header files not be declared inline (if they're defined in a
.c file).  It looks like no functions in this category are used in LibSRTP's critical
path, only for unit tests or generating AES tables.

To see the problem prior to this commit, compile with "gcc -O0 -std=gnu99".
Signed-off-by: Travis Cross <tc@traviscross.com>

This cherry-picks commit e2774dbd551ffe5f872eaec2b2d40b712a54e1ba from
libsrtp upstream.

FS-6196 --resolve

...we'll try to support ancient OpenSSL versions on v1.2 for awhile
longer.

This adds support for the ephemeral elliptic curve Diffie-Hellman key
exchange, which provides for forward secrecy in the event that
long-term keys are compromised.

For the moment, we've hard-coded the curve as prime256v1.

This adds a parameter tls-ciphers in which we can specify the TLS
cipher suite specification for OpenSSL.

Previously there was no way to override the hard-coded cipher suite
specification of "ALL:!ADH:!LOW:!EXP:!MD5:@STRENGTH".

This commit does leave in place the hardcoded cipher spec for WebRTC
of "HIGH:!DSS:!aNULL@STRENGTH".

Previously if tls-version was set to tlsv1 we supported only TLSv1,
but if it was set to sslv23 we supported all versions of TLS.  This
was a weird incorrectly documented behavior that we hope no one was
relying on.

Now we can pass a comma-separated list of TLS/SSL versions that we
would like to support in tls-version.

FS-5839 --resolve

Previously if the TPTAG_TLS_VERSION was set to a non-zero value we
supported only TLSv1 (but not TLSv1.1 or TLSv1.2), and if was set to
zero we supported all versions of TLS and SSL (including the
ridiculous SSLv2).

Now we take an integer field where various bits can be set indicating
which versions of TLS we would like to support.

Conflicts:
	src/mod/endpoints/mod_sofia/mod_sofia.c